Love actually

God gave us love......

In the cuddle of a mother

In the affection of a father

In the hug of a friend

In the care of a sibling

In the kiss of a dear

And.....in so many life’s simple things!!!

Love is the most beautiful feeling. Being in love makes the world seem colourful, the air fragrant, the noise music, the breeze hypnotising and the heart beat......ohhhh only if the heart is there anymore!!! :D

Biochemically, it is no different from eating large quantities of chocolate and being in love gives you an all time high. One is so happy all the time, even when you are not with your loved one.

Not being near him is actually the catch. It makes you realise that it is not just a mere mistaken infatuation which usually develops because you are close to the person, see and meet him every day, have become habituated to him......& the remnants of which would fade in course of time. Love is a strong term and a stronger emotion. It runs deeper than the thousands of miles between. It doesn’t matter if you get to hear or meet him only after all your lucky stars have conspired for you (which of course is such a rarity). :)

The following words are so true:

“Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. Love does not demand its own way. Love is not irritable, and it does not keep record of when it has been wronged. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. Love will last forever.”

Love is blind because when in love nothing else really matters. You do everything possible for him with a top priority in your life. However busy you might be or important project you are working on, being with him is the only natural and logical thing to do. Your heart is definitely not listening to your brain!!! The whole system goes haywire....your mind says to be patient & calm and let things take its own course but then your heart disagrees. It wants to grab whatever opportunity it gets and create new ones to seek company of whom it so yearns for. Imagine the soul that is torn between the two. One gets bedazzled by so many feelings & emotions....the euphoria, the joy, the confusion, the agony & the fear.

Love is the most simple and basic feeling but bizarrely the most difficult to express. Even a small gesture or expression to show that one sincerely cares and that you matter to somebody becomes so difficult to put across. Huh!!

Someone rightly said “Love makes a fool out of everyone...but those who can take intelligent decision even in the state of foolishness are the happiest human beings.”

“To love is nothing

To be loved is something

And to love and be loved is everything.”

:)

P.S: Love can be described in a million different ways but nothing beats experiencing it.